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7 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Bother To Stay Friends With Your Ex

7 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Bother To Stay Friends With Your Ex

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No matter how tough you’re pretending to be, break-ups are painful for all of us. I mean, it’s a person we love and hold very dear leaving our life and probably never coming back as a romantic partner. That’s why we tend to hold on to those people tightly, thinking that having them in our life, even as friends, would be a good idea. But believe me, it’s not. There are some things that simply don’t allow you two to stay friends without one of you (or both) getting more broken. So listen to me, you can’t stay friends with your ex for the following reasons: 1. It isn’t healthy Just imagine, he’s finding a new girlfriend, they’re having an amazing time together and he introduces the two of you. Taking into consideration the fact that you had (and maybe still have) feelings for him, it will ...
17 Habits Of Happy Independent Women — How Many Do You Have?

17 Habits Of Happy Independent Women — How Many Do You Have?

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Being an independent woman, and a happy one at that, is the most important person you can be. When you’re not dependent on anyone else, you get to live your life, on your terms, and not really care about the judgments of others. You don’t have to wait for people, you never put yourself second, and your complete self-awareness keeps you always doing your thing —happily so. Not sure if this describes you? Here’s how badass independent women do things. 1. SHE GOES TO RESTAURANTS ALONE. And never brings a book to hide behind, because restaurants are for eating, not pretending to read a book as some sort of safety blanket. Hell, she even prefers to go alone, so she can have some time alone while enjoying 1000 calories of awesomeness. 2. SHE NEVER WAITS AROUND FOR SOME GUY TO CALL OR TEXT. If...
18 Signs You’re A Strong, Independent Woman

18 Signs You’re A Strong, Independent Woman

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Strong women are a gift to the universe. They help us live, learn, and grow. They shape who we are even if we don’t know them personally. Without them, we literally would not exist. Here’s to all the strong women out there – may we raise more girls to be brave, fearless, and proud like you. 1. You believe in yourself and others. Though it may not always be inherently obvious, you know that you and your friends are capable of anything. You’re willing to encourage everyone and anyone who needs an extra push and when it comes to self-motivation, you’re willing to give it your best shot. 2. If the path is unclear, you’re willing to find another way. Sometimes the rules aren’t clear, or they don’t make sense for everyone following them. YouR...
Screw You For Not Seeing Her Worth

Screw You For Not Seeing Her Worth

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You really don’t get it, don’t you? You are too blind to see that perfection that is standing in front of you. You are not aware that she is a diamond in the rough and that her heart is pure. Can’t you see that she actually wants to be all yours, ignoring all those guys who are hitting on her? She refuses all of them because of you but maybe there is a guy who would fit her much better than you. Don’t you see that you are going to lose her if you keep treating her like this? So, screw you for making her think that she is the unlovable one. While you are making her feel sad and while she is crying herself to sleep because of you, there would be a man who would cherish her as if she was the apple of his eye. There is a man who would be thankful to heaven for sending her his way and the on...
To My Boys Who Will Become Men – Advice From Your Mother

To My Boys Who Will Become Men – Advice From Your Mother

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Being a boy’s mom has its challenges as much as it does its rewards, and being a busy mom can sometimes make us lose sight of all the little things we should be taking in or keeping track of. As a mother, you always strive to do what is best for your kids and hope that you are setting an example for them—that they will take the lessons you’ve taught them and carry them into adulthood. There are so many things you want them to know, things you want them to be prepared for, and if only you could spare a heartache or two. I wanted to have something to give to my boys when they get old enough to read it, something they can look back on and read over and over again when they can understand it a little more as they grow. Something they can appreciate one day. Life doesn’t come with a manual, ...
What It Feels Like To Fear You’re Not Enough

What It Feels Like To Fear You’re Not Enough

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Every morning you wake up, you feel afraid. Every time you look in the mirror, you see a distorted version of yourself, a version that others made you believe is you. Every day is a struggle and feels like climbing a damn mountain. Fear is pinning you down and you refuse to allow yourself to feel happy. Every night your memories are haunting you, chasing the sleep away, making your mind run across all the darkest depths of your past. Thinking about mistakes, poisonous words and opportunities you missed. Drowning you in darkness while sadness is embracing her cold arms around you. Every time you have a challenge ahead, you panic. Not because you’re not ready, not because you’re not smart or capable. It’s because you’re afraid you are not good enough. It’s because you have been surrounded...
7 Traits That Make You So Damn Sexy (According To Men)

7 Traits That Make You So Damn Sexy (According To Men)

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For most men, girls are wonderful human beings. They like everything about them, all the way from their seductive smiles to the shapes of their bodies. But if you want to be more attractive and desirable, you need to know a couple of things more that guys cherish in women. So, here are the sexiest traits of every girl according to men. So read carefully! 1. They like when you are strong Let’s face it ladies—some men are not strong enough, so they always try to find a woman stronger than them to feel safe. Even though this is something that women should do, nowadays most guys behave like this. So, if he sees that you are a strong and independent woman, he will be so amazed with you, thinking that you can do everything on your own and not needing him to complete you. This is one of the mo...
Just Because She Is Strong Doesn’t Mean She’s Not Tired

Just Because She Is Strong Doesn’t Mean She’s Not Tired

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She is strong because she still believes in love, even though her heart was broken into millions of tiny pieces. She is strong because she glued those pieces back together by learning to love herself. She is strong because she didn’t allow sadness to get the best of her. She is strong because she never gives up. On her worst days, she pushes herself out of bed. She gets dressed,. puts her make-up on and a smile on her face. As if she didn’t cry the night before, reminding herself that she had to breathe. Like she hasn’t had enough of everything in this lifetime. She is tired but she keeps on going. She is stronger than all the dark days. But those days made their imprint and made her full of doubts. She doesn’t trust anybody or anything. She was betrayed so many times that she became gu...
Good Wives Ranked From Best To Worst (According To Zodiac Signs)

Good Wives Ranked From Best To Worst (According To Zodiac Signs)

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CANCER Cancer women are very emotional and dedicated. They wear their hearts on their sleeves. Unfortunately, being emotionally exposed like that usually leads them to heartbreak. But despite the fact that they are very easy to hurt, a Cancer is the classic example of a woman who is the right choice for a stable and long-term relationship. They love the idea of marriage and union; it’s something that gives their life meaning. They are extremely caring and they will go the extra mile to suit their husband and kids, just because they want to and because they have a lot of love to give. They are pure-hearted and they will never lie. So when a Pisces tells you something, you can be sure that she is being honest. She is the perfect woman to give your trust to. If you happen to be lucky enoug...